Important! Our Boundaries...
It is our desire to serve you in the highest form possible in each moment as you relax into deeply surrendered healing and/or pleasure. We welcome your expression of desires, and invite you to notice any feeling of shame or fear that may prevent you from asking for what you want, and then support you in making requests safe in the knowledge that we choose not to take offence. In order for this way of communicating to happen we need to establish trust - in ourselves, each other, and the process, so we can allow the letting go of all expectations and control. Having boundaries in place is the magic that enables trust to emerge.
Consensual Willingness is an energy state and communication style by which you are free to make your requests, and we are open to hear them then make a choice as to whether or not we can meet them. Some of our clients come to us believing they have no boundaries - this is neither safe nor true, and so in order that we can all soften into that place of consensual willingness, we, as tantrikas holding your session, have both hard and soft boundaries and we invite you to have yours.
Hard boundaries are immovable - soft boundaries are set in each moment as the energy flows between us. (See FAQ page)
And so we hold, respect and honour all boundaries - yours and ours, and we expect you to do the same. Breach of this will result in the hands on session ending immediately. There may be room for reflection and exploration should we feel to offer it.
Our Hard Boundaries:
No penetration received
No aggressive behaviour to the venue, us or yourself.
Soft Boundaries:
Include such choices as where we are happy to kiss you, and if and where we are happy to allow you to touch us.
At the beginning of the session you will be invited to share with us your own hard and soft boundaries.
Pleasure is experienced in each moment as we deepen into surrender and willingness which is why we choose our soft boundaries in the moment. Anything else is either fantasy or fear ~ clear conscious communication is key.
Prior to booking...
Take your time looking around the website, take in the images and words and listen to your body's responses, the mind will take you around in circles! If we are right for you, and if our offerings will be beneficial to you, you will feel a 'yes'. We encourage you to check out other sites as well as there is much wonderful pleasure to be had out there. Websites are like shop windows, things often look better than they are and so we invite you to look at our testimonial page and see what others have to say about their experience. Ask yourself "what is it I'm wanting to experience, explore or expand?" Relaxation/intimacy/healing/pleasure? We are known for our heart centered intimate being and erotically sensual nature and love to share this with you.
Please note that simply by opening to the experience of loving touch you could open yourself to new perception, different values and more motivated energy. Life could take a new direction - or you may simply relish in the relaxing effects of four handed pleasure for several days.
So once you have chosen to invest in yourself and to experience the pure prolonged loving pleasure you deserve, please contact us via the get in touch page and let us know you are wanting an appointment. We aim to get back to you within 4 days with our availability and maybe some questions around your request.
The booking process...
In order to secure your appointment it is necessary to pay your deposit of £100 or £200 via the 'Payment Options' page. The deposit secures your appointment and ensures that the time agreed is now dedicated to you. We ask that you take your commitment to yourself, to us, and to our connection seriously and do your utmost to honour the appointment. More details are given on the Payment Options page.
Before Our Meeting...
Notice your state of being leading up to our connection. Notice feelings of anxiety, excitement, longing, sleeplessness, breath changes. These are all quite normal aspects of anticipation. If troublesome simply be aware of your breath and make sure your in breath is slow and steady and extend the out breath for just two counts longer than the in breath, this will help you return to calmness. If any questions come to mind make a note of them or email us. The only silly question is the one left unasked.
Please be as honest as possible around what you would like to experience during our time together so that we may make informed consensual choices. This saves time, money and potential disappointment. None of our clients have been disappointed as yet and we wish to maintian our high level of customer satisfaction. This is due to clear communication. We appreciate you may feel shame, guilt, disgust, fear around making your request so please note we do not judge and we believe taking offence is a choice, and consequently we choose not to be offended so go ahead, request your true desire no matter what it is, whilst appreciating that we may or we may not choose to meet it. You never know until you ask.
On The Day...
PLEASE TEXT BEFORE 9:30AM TO CONFIRM YOUR ATTENDANCE.
FAILURE TO DO THIS WILL BE TAKEN AS CANCELLATION AND YOUR APPOINTMENT MAY BE OFFERED TO ONE OF OUR REGULAR CLIENTS.
We invite you to begin your experience as you awaken to the day. Allow your mind to imagine your session ahead. Sense how this makes you feel, and if pleasant, breathe in to expand the beauty. If not, breathe anyway and actively engage your mind in some beautiful experience. Feel free to self pleasure - allowing release of tension and inviting the relaxation process to begin. Then allow all expectation to disappear and open your self to all possibility.
Indulge yourself in a long warm shower. Feel the spay on your back, watch the droplets on your belly, feel the water tingle your skin, turn it into a meditation. Use the time to slow down and deepen your breath, bring yourself into this moment fully. It is especially important to give attention to your cleanliness due to the intimate nature of the session, but please do not use any strongly fragranced chemical products i.e. deodorant as it may impact on our desire to body-breathe, or orally honor. You may shower on arrival and before you leave the venue. Towels are provided.
Plan your journey allowing plenty of time so that you don't feel rushed or anxious as you make your way to our beautiful specially designed temple of sacred pleasure and healing. We encourage listening to relaxing music as you drive or take public transport, begin to create a pleasing inner environment for yourself regardless to what is happening in your outer environment.
Arrive without expectation and with an open mind and willingness to be present to all possibilities within you and between us in each moment In this way you will receive a more expanded experience from whichever of our offerings you have chosen, and will leave feeling out of this world.
Know that we will be waiting to welcome you with open heart and mind and with the readiness to serve you well.
It is our desire to serve you in the highest form possible in each moment as you relax into deeply surrendered healing and/or pleasure. We welcome your expression of desires, and invite you to notice any feeling of shame or fear that may prevent you from asking for what you want, and then support you in making requests safe in the knowledge that we choose not to take offence. In order for this way of communicating to happen we need to establish trust - in ourselves, each other, and the process, so we can allow the letting go of all expectations and control. Having boundaries in place is the magic that enables trust to emerge.
Consensual Willingness is an energy state and communication style by which you are free to make your requests, and we are open to hear them then make a choice as to whether or not we can meet them. Some of our clients come to us believing they have no boundaries - this is neither safe nor true, and so in order that we can all soften into that place of consensual willingness, we, as tantrikas holding your session, have both hard and soft boundaries and we invite you to have yours.
Hard boundaries are immovable - soft boundaries are set in each moment as the energy flows between us. (See FAQ page)
And so we hold, respect and honour all boundaries - yours and ours, and we expect you to do the same. Breach of this will result in the hands on session ending immediately. There may be room for reflection and exploration should we feel to offer it.
Our Hard Boundaries:
No penetration received
No aggressive behaviour to the venue, us or yourself.
Soft Boundaries:
Include such choices as where we are happy to kiss you, and if and where we are happy to allow you to touch us.
At the beginning of the session you will be invited to share with us your own hard and soft boundaries.
Pleasure is experienced in each moment as we deepen into surrender and willingness which is why we choose our soft boundaries in the moment. Anything else is either fantasy or fear ~ clear conscious communication is key.
Prior to booking...
Take your time looking around the website, take in the images and words and listen to your body's responses, the mind will take you around in circles! If we are right for you, and if our offerings will be beneficial to you, you will feel a 'yes'. We encourage you to check out other sites as well as there is much wonderful pleasure to be had out there. Websites are like shop windows, things often look better than they are and so we invite you to look at our testimonial page and see what others have to say about their experience. Ask yourself "what is it I'm wanting to experience, explore or expand?" Relaxation/intimacy/healing/pleasure? We are known for our heart centered intimate being and erotically sensual nature and love to share this with you.
Please note that simply by opening to the experience of loving touch you could open yourself to new perception, different values and more motivated energy. Life could take a new direction - or you may simply relish in the relaxing effects of four handed pleasure for several days.
So once you have chosen to invest in yourself and to experience the pure prolonged loving pleasure you deserve, please contact us via the get in touch page and let us know you are wanting an appointment. We aim to get back to you within 4 days with our availability and maybe some questions around your request.
The booking process...
In order to secure your appointment it is necessary to pay your deposit of £100 or £200 via the 'Payment Options' page. The deposit secures your appointment and ensures that the time agreed is now dedicated to you. We ask that you take your commitment to yourself, to us, and to our connection seriously and do your utmost to honour the appointment. More details are given on the Payment Options page.
Before Our Meeting...
Notice your state of being leading up to our connection. Notice feelings of anxiety, excitement, longing, sleeplessness, breath changes. These are all quite normal aspects of anticipation. If troublesome simply be aware of your breath and make sure your in breath is slow and steady and extend the out breath for just two counts longer than the in breath, this will help you return to calmness. If any questions come to mind make a note of them or email us. The only silly question is the one left unasked.
Please be as honest as possible around what you would like to experience during our time together so that we may make informed consensual choices. This saves time, money and potential disappointment. None of our clients have been disappointed as yet and we wish to maintian our high level of customer satisfaction. This is due to clear communication. We appreciate you may feel shame, guilt, disgust, fear around making your request so please note we do not judge and we believe taking offence is a choice, and consequently we choose not to be offended so go ahead, request your true desire no matter what it is, whilst appreciating that we may or we may not choose to meet it. You never know until you ask.
On The Day...
PLEASE TEXT BEFORE 9:30AM TO CONFIRM YOUR ATTENDANCE.
FAILURE TO DO THIS WILL BE TAKEN AS CANCELLATION AND YOUR APPOINTMENT MAY BE OFFERED TO ONE OF OUR REGULAR CLIENTS.
We invite you to begin your experience as you awaken to the day. Allow your mind to imagine your session ahead. Sense how this makes you feel, and if pleasant, breathe in to expand the beauty. If not, breathe anyway and actively engage your mind in some beautiful experience. Feel free to self pleasure - allowing release of tension and inviting the relaxation process to begin. Then allow all expectation to disappear and open your self to all possibility.
Indulge yourself in a long warm shower. Feel the spay on your back, watch the droplets on your belly, feel the water tingle your skin, turn it into a meditation. Use the time to slow down and deepen your breath, bring yourself into this moment fully. It is especially important to give attention to your cleanliness due to the intimate nature of the session, but please do not use any strongly fragranced chemical products i.e. deodorant as it may impact on our desire to body-breathe, or orally honor. You may shower on arrival and before you leave the venue. Towels are provided.
Plan your journey allowing plenty of time so that you don't feel rushed or anxious as you make your way to our beautiful specially designed temple of sacred pleasure and healing. We encourage listening to relaxing music as you drive or take public transport, begin to create a pleasing inner environment for yourself regardless to what is happening in your outer environment.
Arrive without expectation and with an open mind and willingness to be present to all possibilities within you and between us in each moment In this way you will receive a more expanded experience from whichever of our offerings you have chosen, and will leave feeling out of this world.
Know that we will be waiting to welcome you with open heart and mind and with the readiness to serve you well.